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Αρχική English Edition One Year Together, Apart: Relationships and Self-Reliance

One Year Together, Apart: Relationships and Self-Reliance


By Maria Papagiannopoulou,

In a year, since the pandemic began, people have learnt to be together while apart and have navigated the pain of feeling apart while together. Screens, small and large, became crucial links to the rest of the world. Activities and routines that commanded crowds -visiting museums, attending concerts, working out, learning, traveling, partying- ceased or found a new life online. Holidays usually celebrated by family gatherings became fraught with consequences. Memories of a pre-pandemic world, where people could stand shoulder to shoulder with bare faces, began to feel like dreams -as did moments of unexpected connection.

Couples in quarantine learned a lot about their significant others. In some instances, these revelations were not happy ones: lawyers and mediators saw a spike in clients looking to divorce as soon as courts reopened. In other cases, being confined together made couples stronger. Engagements and pregnancy announcements seemed to pop up constantly on social media. And there were plenty of weddings.

For many of those who were single, dating felt impossible in the early months of the pandemic. Eventually, emotional and physical needs began to weigh heavy, and people across the country found ways to meet and hook up within the confines of their comfort.

In search of safety, stability, and support, adult children moved in with parents and parental figures, sometimes without a fixed departure date. In doing so, they rediscovered each other and experienced the joys of bonding and the suffocation of constant proximity.

Young people around the world cut off from their usual social lives and faced a “mental health pandemic”. According to a study, almost one-third of the teens interviewed said they had felt unhappy or depressed.

Image source: https://kawarthanow.com/2021/02/09/pandemic-dating-how-couples-have-safely-started-relationships-despite-covid-19/

Parents, especially mothers, left the work force quickly and in large numbers in the spring. Those who continued working had to balance the demands of their jobs with domestic chores, child care and online schooling, straining their mental health.

On the other end of the age spectrum, older adults were deprived of seeing their children and grandchildren. Some spoke to them through panes of glass. Retirees put off plans that had been years in the making, like travelling and volunteering. Inside nursing homes, COVID-19 outbreak became all too regular, with more than 163,000 residents and workers dying of the virus.

Though some Americans were able to hole up at home, their kitchen tables and couches converted into makeshift offices, others continued to work in public spaces. Delivery drivers dealt with health risks, theft and assault. Airline workers who were not furloughed had to confront passengers who refused to wear masks.

Perhaps no group of workers felt as isolated as those in medical care. In spring, hospital staff around the country dealt with the gut-wrenching horrors of a steep surge in cases. But stress did not relent, when the case numbers did, and it grew again as infections rose in the fall. Doctors and nurses agonized over putting their families at risk, and dealt with intense burnout and pay cuts. Some said that being characterized as heroes by the public left them little room to express vulnerability.

In February, the United States reached a tragic milestone: more than 500,000 Americans had died from COVID-19, a toll higher than in any other country. The world’s struggle to contain the corona virus was often compared to a war; in this case, the enemy claimed more Americans than World War I, World War II and the Vietnam War combined. All told, by March, one in three Americans had lost someone to the virus.

Grief and loss defined the last year. Around the world, the virus has taken millions of lives and left the mourning deprived of the usual rites. Funerals and final goodbyes took place over video calls, if at all. Widows and widowers joined online bereavement groups to process the pain of loss in isolation.

But things have opened up slowly over the last few months, as cases have fallen and people have become inoculated. This week, President Biden promised that there will be enough vaccine doses for every American adult by May, and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention announced that vaccinated people can begin gathering indoors again -a sign that people will soon be finding their way back to each other.


References

Davenport, Stephen R.; Kallaur, Emily; Kunicova, Jana. (2020). Coming Together While Staying Apart: Facilitating Collective Action through Trust and Social Connection in the Age of COVID-19. World Bank, Washington, DC. © World Bank. Available here.

Seniors face health risks from pandemic isolation, Daily Press, Available here

Pandemic dating: how couples have safely started relationships despite COVID-19, KawarthaNOW.com, Available here


 

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Maria Papagiannopoulou
She was born in 1999. She holds a Bachelor's Degree in English Language and English Language Teaching in New York College in Athens in cooperation with the University of Greenwich, UK. She is currently doing her Master's degree in TESOL at the University of Sunderland based in the UK. In her leisure time she practice her artistic nature in photography. She also enjoys travelling.